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‘You Could Have Been… is a children’s picture book for bereaved parents to read to their baby who died, or didn’t survive a pregnancy. It’s filled with a parent's wonder of who their child could have been if they’d had the chance to grow up. The book is written to the child, so a parent can talk to them about their lost hopes and dreams, but most importantly, their love. 

The watercolour illustrations are by artist, Zheng Qu, and beautifully depict the essence of our very special children who are no longer with us. 

Inspired by Morrie Schwartz’s words, “Death ends a life, not a relationship”, it is hoped that this book is a special way for bereaved parents, including those who experience early pregnancy loss, to continue a relationship with their child that they are unable to hold in their arms.

What people are saying:

    • “I’m so grateful that you have shared your love for Xavier with the release of your book. It’s mums like you that help make life a little more ‘do-able’ for those that are battling the same loss” 
    Ashleigh from NSW, Australia
    • "What you put together was brave, emotional and empowering. I was so nervous giving it to my friend as a gift, worried it might bring up challenging emotions, but your story assured me it's something people who have experienced this kind of loss will appreciate. It gave me space to tell my friend I love and honour her baby who was only here for a short time. My friend has messaged me tonight with heart felt thanks. Thank you for providing this narrative for mums, dads, siblings, family and friends to celebrate the life that was taken too soon” 
    Clare from VIC, Australia
    • “Your beautiful book arrived today. I was having the worst morning and this has just absolutely put me at peace. Your book is incredible, I love it so much and can not wait to sit in my son’s room and read it to him tonight” 
    Victoria from NSW, Australia
    • “The book is so beautiful. I’ve already told my GP, birth photographer, doula, counsellor and funeral director about the book. They all love it. My husband read it at our son’s funeral and it was so sweet and heartbreaking” 
    Sarah from VIC, Australia
    • “Thank you Annie-M for providing grieving families with such a special gift – from your heart to theirs. I know Xavier would be so proud of his mumma” 
    Megan from NSW, Australia
    • “I just wanted to say how beautiful and treasured your book is in our house. I read it to our daughter; and speak of our son all the time. I think he would have been a helicopter pilot” 
    Carlee from WA, Australia

Buy the book!

Available in hardcover and paperback

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 This book is proudly endorsed by
Stillbirth Foundation Australia
- an Australian Charity dedicated to reducing
the incidence and impact of stillbirth
 through research, education and advocacy. 

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